I think the biggest change I've felt in having my 2 boys is balance. I work hard on balancing time with each... both time alone with each and time together with them. I also am trying to balance time to clean and do things I like to do (scrapbook, read, watch tv, blog etc...).
When it was just Blake he was on a pretty structured schedule (actually he still is), so I knew what time I had and I could have time to do the things I needed to do as well as the things I wanted to do. Colby... well Colby still doesn't have a schedule... or anything close to a schedule. So some days I have an hour with both boys sleeping... other days I'm lucky to have 5 minutes. I will watch some of my tv shows while Colby is awake and I can work on the computer while playing with him. But, when Blake is up Noggin, Nick Jr., or PBS is on (if the tv is on at all)... and if it was up to Blake I wouldn't go anywhere near the computer.
I don't like leaving all the cleaning and such for after the boys go to sleep. I would rather have that time to spend with Richard, or do something I enjoy... not something I HAVE to do.
I know I will find a balance... at sometime in the future... but until then... well... I can just do what I can do!
What do you do to find balance in your life?