random weekend thoughts / end of the month

1. Isn't it funny how the weeks can fly and the month still feels long?

2. Weight gain and pregnancy is normal, but it doesn't make it any less scary

3. Of course eating a bowl of ice cream every night could explain some of the weight gain

4. Going to BJ's and then the grocery store saves money, but you don't see it at the moment

5. Missing the shuttle launch because of Blake's tantrum is worth it... even if it is disappointing

6. Listening to Blake laugh and watching him play with Richard can make any moment special

7. Knowing I only have what 3.5 days left until I meet my new little guy in my life... yep they are going to be longggg days

8. A nap in the middle of the day... feels soooo good

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Can you believe it is the end of another month? Where has time gone? In a few short days I will be the Mommy of 2. Seems like just yesterday I was worried about going into labor while Richard was working (and I was having Blake).

To answer some questions I know you have... no the baby still doesn't have a name. Yes, I will log on to update with stats (I am considering doing a poll of weight, length and name ... there wouldn't be a prize but would you still be interested?). Yes, I will try to post pics if I can if not I will as soon as I get home. If all goes well I should be home either Friday or Saturday (I'm sort of pushing hoping to get out on Friday).

As for my blog... I will try to get my daily posts up (they maybe shorter for a bit buttttt). I will continue to share how being a teacher has influenced my choices as a mother.

My question for you is... so what do you want to see more of? Anything you are tired of yet? What can I do to make my blog more appealing to you and others?

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I think that's all! Have a wonderful rest of your weekend!!

award from Dana

I received this award from Dana today at Just Talk! Hmmm now I have to think about who to pass it onto... but I'll save that for another day. Thanks again Dana!

color test

I stole this from Chrisie over at Perfectly Imperfect


ColorQuiz.com

200th post

Sooo I figured I'd share a bit more about me. I told a bit about me in my 100th post.

I talk a lot about my experiences as a kindergarten teacher. So I figured I'd share a bit more about my life as a teacher. I decided when I was in the 6th grade that I wanted to be a teacher. I didn't decide on what level until probably high school (much to the chagrin of many teachers who wanted me to pursue a more lucrative field or at least go into math or science education).

When I decided to get my degree in Early Childhood Education my originally thought was to work in a company's on-site day care. I felt that this should have been a growing field by the time I graduated (notice it still isn't there yet). I felt that this was a benefit to the company, the employees, and even more important the children. I felt it was the best of both worlds... people (especially mothers) could work and their children would be right there, in the same building... how does this not make sense? Anyway... it never happened and by the time I graduated I was looking in a different direction.

My first pre-practicum experience was in a first grade classroom teaching math. I did enjoy this, but felt first grade was a bit structured for me. (which is funny since I'm a rather structured person). My second pre-practicum experience was in a half day kindergarten in a school that had pre-K, kindergarten and a few first grades... that's it... wow did I LOVE this school! I managed to get my student teaching placement at the same school. I split my time between a full day kindergarten and a half-day special needs pre-K.

While I was in college, living in Massachusetts at the time, Massachusetts passed a bill that said that teachers had 5 years from the time they graduated to acquire their master's degree. So what did I decide to do? I went straight into grad school, SUNY @ Buffalo here I come!, and got my degree in 1 year! (My parents were living in Rochester, NY at the time)

After I got my master's I applied to teach at public schools, but got little to no response. So, I decided to look into working at a day care for a year or two. I got a position teaching kindergarten at a day care, I actually designed the program for them. This was a great experience, but at the same time I did not like working at a day care for many different reasons.

I decided it was time for a change and began applying for teaching jobs back in Massachusetts. I was hired and taught at a school for 3 years. I loved the school, but has some minor issues with my principal, so I decided it was time to move on.

I decided to move to Florida, my brother had moved to the Orlando area the year before. I got a job teaching in Orlando in a low income school. This had its rewards and it's challenges. I loved the children and their love of learning, but it was heart wrenching listening to their stories and knowing that I couldn't help them all. At the same time, I had some MAJOR philosophy differences with my principal, things I would never give in on (such as recess and playtime in kindergarten... yeah sorry but 5 year olds need to play). So one more change I made.

I found a school that I was very happy at, and grew as a teacher and as a person there. I worked at this last school for 5 years, and would probably still be there if I didn't decide to stay home with Blake.

The big questions I get asked...
Do you miss teaching? yes and no... ask me in August and my answer is always yes... I miss meeting a new class, setting up my room, the excitement of a new year. Do I miss the paperwork, the headaches and hassles... no!

Will you go back to work at some time? Yes, Richard and I agreed that I would stay home until the youngest was in kindergarten and then I will go back to work

Will you go back to being a kindergarten teacher? Probably not. I was beginning to get burnt out on kindergarten... I had actually asked to switch to pre-K, but then the school didn't get enough funding and/or have the space for the pre-K class they talked about putting into the school. Then the next year I left so I'm not sure what I would have done if I'd gone back for another year

Will you go back into teaching at all? Not sure... I will do something in the field of education. I feel I have a lot to offer and will have even more after having been a Mom myself. I'm keeping my options open. Somethings that I have/had considered doing are: becoming a college professor, working in a hospital in their children's ward as an educational consultant for the children who have extended stays, teaching pre-K, and many more

Well.... I've rambled enough! Hope that gives you a picture of me

My new ride

Quick post

Blake hasn't felt himself today so I'm not on much... got to get in the extra cuddle time while I can. Blake mastered a new skill today... he now blows kisses. He did it this morning when Richard was leaving for work and a few times for my mom today. It's just too cute. I'll have to try to get it on video.

I had my last dr.'s appt today and things look good for the arrival of baby boy #2! Hard to believe in 6 days I will officially be Lori.Mommyto2!

Slight change in plans

The dr's office just called and the hospital changed my c/s time from 5:30pm to 9am... just a small switch! Good thing Richard's meeting was changed from Wednesday to Monday!!

It will work better for me personally in the fact that I was going to have to fast for 8 hours ahead of time, but now I have to work on juggling Blake's care for that time too

All things must come to an end...

oh well I got booted from Top Momma... I'll try again to get on the list.

I'm a Top Mommma!
Why does that sound pathetic?? Good luck to anyone else who gets there

Thank you all for your support

I know things have been crazy here the last few days (and will probably get worse before they get better). Thank you all for your kind words of support in response to my post yesterday. I know things will fall into place, but that doesn't stop the OMG! feelings. Richard and I talked about it and the great thing with him is he reminded me... hey he can cook and clean too! (added bonus)

Thank you again for your support!

I can help!

Richard put together the new double stroller yesterday... and of course Blake had to help!

nervous about #2

Do I think I can handle having two kids under 2.... ummmm.... ummmm .... yes??

I'm excited and it is nice to know that in a little over a week I get to meet my new little guy. I was pulling out my boppy today and his going home outfit (and an extra.... we had to change Blake before we even left the hospital... lol). I have washed the bottles and pacifiers (I'm one of those strange mommies who still believes in giving newborns water... remember I live in Orlando!) and have everything set up... I think!

This weekend I wrapped a few gifts for Blake... one my mom is going to give him the night I have the baby (a new set of song books and his "I'm the big brother" t-shirt, one from Richard and I that he will get in the hospital and leave there for his visits (a set of word books), and one from his baby brother (a magnetic alphabet truck puzzle). These are wrapped and ready to go.

I still haven't packed a bag for myself, or the baby's stuff. We are still working on setting in stone who is taking care of Blake when... I think a lot of that will be up in the air depending on how I'm doing and how the new baby is doing too.

But, these aren't the things that worry me.... I worry about how I will make sure Blake and the new baby get the attention they need. How I'm going to function with even less sleep. How I'm going to manage to not pick up Blake for the first 2 weeks (don't tell my dr... he said 6! ummm NO WAY!). How I'm going to manage getting out of the house to do anything more than walk around the block. How I'm going to maintain the house and spend time with the boys. How I'm going to cook with a toddler and a newborn. How I'm going to nurse the new baby and entertain Blake without turning him into a couch potato. How are Blake and Abby going to react and deal with the newborn? When am I going to take a shower? Can I keep Blake on his schedule and still meet the baby's needs?

eeeek! At least the plan right now is that Richard will be home with me the first week and then my mom the second week... since I am not allowed to drive for 2 weeks either and I don't want to be alone and not be able to drive God forbid anything happen... Richard works 15 min away that is a long time to wait for someone to pick me up.

oh well... in 8 days I will figure it all out... or start to anyway!

random weekend thoughts

1. Being pregnant in May is Florida is a lot harder when you are 8 months pregnant opposed to 3 months pregnant

2. Ice cream is a must for pregnancy heartburn!

3. Strange... the more I drop the harder it is to breath... does anyone else think that is backwards?

4. Watching Blake learn and progress makes all the tough moments soooo worth it

5. There is nothing better than watching Blake and Richard laugh and play together

6. I'm more worried about bringing home baby #2 than I was bringing home Blake... strange I know!

7. Homemade anything tastes so much better

8. Most women clean when they are nesting... me... yeah not so much... I cook/bake

9. So who is going to invent kitchen floors that are self cleaning?

10. I don't always have the time/energy to reply to everyone's blog that I read, but I do read them! I'd rather not reply than have a cut and paste reply to all.... hope you don't mind and I hope you do not stop reading mine because I've been slacking! I promise to try harder

a few new pics

Richard snapped a few pics of Blake and I yesterday when we were getting ready to go to the grocery store

New skills

When I was working on painting the baby's room we reversed the lock so I could lock Blake out of the room (since you know he can open the doors on his own). Well... since he has been playing in there all the time we began locking the door for his nap time and bed time... yeah well that doesn't work anymore... he figured out how to unlock the door.

So now in our house unless the door has a baby-proof lock on it... he can open it! (well he hasn't figured out the dead bolts, but I think that is because they are too high up) He has also figured out how to open the slider door if it is unlocked. At least the handles for the patio doors are high (they are over my head) so we don't have to worry about that for a longggggg time!

oh and the other day he figure out how to get one type of the baby proof outlet covers off... so much for baby proofing!

oh the joys!

Top Momma

Wow... I'm the front page of the Top Momma list! Click on the Top Momma logo on the side of my page to get on the list too.

This is my Top Momma pic:

Friday Video (take 2)

progress is a good thing

I posted a bit ago about having Blake put his cup on the table instead of dropping it on the floor. Yesterday on more than one occasion I noticed his cup wasn't where it had been... so I went to get him to move it, and silly Mommy... I moved it to another table. I am finding that he is remembering more and more to put it on the table (or couch, or chair, or entertainment center... anywhere off the floor). This has made me proud. We just started working on this on the 14th of May and here it is the 22nd and he doesn't need to be reminded (for the most part).

The other thing that I've noticed a lot of progress with is cleaning up after himself. We have been working on this slowly... and getting there! I do not make him clean up his toys the minute he finishes playing with them, but if he is looking to switch rooms then we clean up. Yesterday morning he was playing with the lids to some of my pans while I was getting his breakfast ready. Well, he had to stop playing with them to have his breakfast. After he ate and pushed in his chair he went back to the lids. I figured he was going back to empty more out of the cabinet or continue to play with the lids on the floor... nope he went back to put away the lids. He opened the cabinet, put the lids on the right pans, closed the slider, closed then door and the looked at me and said... "all done"

It is so good to see his pride when he does things like that. It is funny to watch him clap for himself and say "yay!" when he has followed directions or remember to do something on his own. I am so proud of him when he does little things like remember to say sorry if he loses his temper, or decides to play too hard with the dog. I am proud to see my little guy growing up and showing that he has compassion and caring... and is only 18 months!

new blogger

yes... I've convinced another friend to start blogging! This is an on-line friend of mine who has an 18 month old son named Wyatt (can you guess how we met?) .

Check out Chrisie's blog Perfectly Imperfect. She just started this week so she could use a bit of bloggy love to convince her that blogging is fun!

Lori-isms

As a teacher I had a lot of things that I said over and over and over again to my kids... people used to laugh because I'd start saying something and the children would finish it.

Here are a few I used a lot

"direction given, direction followed"
"This isn't your house, and I'm not your mother"
"That doesn't work here"
"I don't think we are having a debate"
"When did you get to be the teacher?"
"4 on the floor or you stand" (4 legs of the chair on the floor or they lost the right to use a chair)
"That is a privilege not a right"
"Is that helpful or hurtful?"
"Is that a safe choice?"
"I don't understand the word 'can't'"
"Ask 3 before me" (ask 3 friends for help before asking me)
"Are you wasting my time?"


I don't have a lot that I say over and over with Blake... yet

"Is that safe?"
"What does a big boy do with ____?"
"be gentle!"
"give hugs to say sorry"
"thank you for making good choices"
"if you can't listen to mommy then ____"


So... what do you find yourself saying over and over with your own kids (or other teachers out there... with your classes?)????

wow

My post yesterday got a LOT of responses and seemed to be very well received! This makes me happy (o:

Note to self: post more like that!


If anyone has a question, request or thoughts on other posts related to how I deal with Blake compared to how I taught kindergarten or in relation to how I taught kindergarten... feel free to ask away!

Sometimes I wonder how it will be perceived and I don't want to come across as a "know-it-all" or preachy. I am raising Blake (and the new baby too) to in essence be the best kindergartener he can be! That may sound strange, but I want to provide him the tools he needs to be successful. I'm not going to push him to be advanced (I'm not going to hold him back either) but he will learn what he is ready to learn when he learns it. He will be exposed to learning skills, life experiences and life in general to the best of my ability as a parent.


Well... I didn't spend a lot of time with Blake today, and I have a lot on my mind with the new baby right now, so tomorrow we will resume our regularly scheduled program (o:

quick post

I'll post a "teacher turned mommy post" later... I had my dr. appt today so I'm sneaking on to post this as it is... got to love Super Why! distract Blake for a min so I can check my e-mail

Well... I have a delivery date!! (I need to change my ticker now!)


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Delivery is set for 5:30pm

sometimes it's what you say

When I taught kindergarten I got labeled as the teacher who can work with the "tough kids". This sometimes meant I had the children with more known learning issues, sometimes behavior issues, and sometimes it meant the difficult parent. (now let me tell you I do not understand the last one because I'm not good with parents!)

The challenge with kindergarten is... when you are labeled this teacher you get the children who come in and we know they have issues... nice thick IEP (Individualized Education Plan) to read through before you even meet the child or long sob stories from moms on how "terrible" their child has been in pre-K or whatever... buttttt you also get the unknown... it is kindergarten!

Anyway... one thing I worked on very hard was explaining to the children that they choose to behave the way they behave. (insert upset parent of child with ADHD trying to tell me their child can't choose... ummm yes they can!) Ever action a child makes is a choice. You choose to listen, you choose to behave, you choose to throw that book on the floor.

At the same time I always explained that I cared about each child, and that each child was special to me. I always told them I many not like your choices but I do like you. Some children have never heard this before. Some children only get attention when they do things wrong. They do not know how to deal with positive praise.

With Blake I've already started talking about choices. Yes, I've blogged about giving him choices such as what clothes to wear or what to have for breakfast, but those aren't the choices I'm talking about. I'm talking about the choice to be gentle with Abby over hitting her. The choice to follow directions instead of ignoring Mommy. When Blake does something right Richard and I will often say "thank you for making a good choice" And when he is doing something against our wishes we ask "Is that a good choice?" At 18 months he is beginning to understand this already.

The big reason I started this in school was so often these children who had issues had been told you are bad when it's not the child who is bad, it is that the child is making a bad choice. I tell Blake he is a good boy (or being a big boy, or something on those lines) often... not all the time, but often. But, I never use the term bad boy with him. I would rather say that is a bad choice and then he realizes he made the decision to do the wrong thing... it doesn't make him bad, it makes him realize he shouldn't do that!

I can honestly tell you that doing this with some of the children in my classes helped them change their opinion of themselves. When children start looking at their actions as choices they realize they are in control of their behavior, they are in control over how people look at them, they choose to be the person they want to be!

random weekend thoughts

1. Shots are just as hard on the parents as they are on the child

2. Waiting for over an hour to see the dr with an 18 month old is NOT fun!

3. It's funny when sleeping until 7am feels like sleeping in

4. Waking up every hour is one of the absolute worst parts of this pregnancy!

5. Laying on the couch reading a book is a strange and wonderful treat

6. Having a computer geek for a hubby makes life easier when things go haywire with computer programs

7. Seeing Blake settle quickly for his nap, even with house guests here, makes the struggles to get him into a new routine so totally worth it

more funnies

Ok I stole this from a friend on another board

Why we love kids....

1) NUDITY
I was driving with my three young children one warm summer evening when a woman in the convertible ahead of us stood up and waved. She was stark naked! As I was reeling from the shock, I heard my 5-year-old shout from the back seat, 'Mom, that lady isn't wearing a seat belt!'

2) OPINIONS
On the first day of school, a first-grader handed his teacher note from his mother. The note read, 'The opinions expressed by this child are not necessarily those of his parents.'

3) KETCHUP
A woman was trying hard to get the ketchup out of the jar. During her struggle the phone rang so she asked her 4-year-old daughter to answer the phone. 'Mommy can't come to the phone to talk to you right now. She's hitting the bottle.'

4) MORE NUDITY
A little boy got lost at the YMCA and found himself in the women's locker room. When he was spotted, the room burst into shrieks, with ladies grabbing towels and running for cover. The little boy watched in amazement and then asked, 'What's the matter, haven't you ever seen a little boy before?'

5) POLICE # 1
While taking a routine vandalism report at an elementary school, I was interrupted by a little girl about 6 years old. Looking up and down at my uniform, she asked, 'Are you a cop? Yes,' I answered and continued writing the report. My mother said if I ever needed help I should ask the police. Is that right?' 'Yes, that's right,' I told her. 'Well, then,' she said as she extended her foot toward me, 'would you please tie my shoe?'

6) POLICE # 2
It was the end of the day when I parked my police van in front of the station. As I gathered my equipment, my K-9 partner, Jake, was barking, and I saw a little boy staring in at me. 'Is that a dog you got back there?' he asked. 'It sure is,' I replied. Puzzled, the boy looked at me and then towards the back of the van. Finally he said, 'What'd he do?'

7) ELDERLY
While working for an organization that delivers lunches to elderly shut-ins, I used to take my 4-year-old daughter on my afternoon rounds. She was unfailingly intrigued by the various appliances of old age, particularly the canes, walkers and wheelchairs. One day I found her staring at a pair of false teeth soaking in a glass. As I braced myself for the inevitable barrage of questions, she merely turned and whispered, 'The tooth fairy will never believe this!'

8) DRESS-UP
A little girl was watching her parents dress for a party. When she saw her dad donning his tuxedo, she warned, 'Daddy, you shouldn't wear that suit.' 'And why not, darling?' 'You know that it always gives you a headache the next morning.'

9) DEATH
While walking along the sidewalk in front of his church, our minister heard the intoning of a prayer that nearly made his collar wilt. Apparently, his 5-year-old son and his playmates had found a dead robin. Feeling that proper burial should be performed, they had secured a small box and cotton batting, then dug a hole and made ready for the disposal of the deceased. The minister's son was chosen to say the appropriate prayers and with sonorous dignity intoned his version of what he thought his father always said: 'Glory be unto the Faaather, and unto the Sonnn, and into the hole he goooes.'

10) SCHOOL
A little girl had just finished her first week of school. 'I'm just wasting my time,' she said to her mother. 'I can't read, I can't write, and they won't let me talk!'

11) BIBLE
A little boy opened the big family Bible. He was fascinated as he fingered through the old pages. Suddenly, something fell out of the Bible. He picked up the object and looked at it. What he saw was an old leaf that had been pressed in between the pages. 'Mama, look what I found,' the boy called out. 'What have you got there, dear?' With astonishment in the young boy's voice, he answered, 'I think it's Adam's underwear
!'

Choices are a good thing... take 2

Well since I couldn't decide what to blog about today... I decided to take a trip down memory lane and read (ok well glance at) the blogs for the 15th of every month. I came across this one in January: Choices are a good thing. First it was interesting to read since it was in the beginning of my blogging experience. I just began blogging on Jan 2nd so that shows you how into it I was (I didn't even label my blogs then).

Well... lets look at Blake and his choices now! In that blog I mentioned giving Blake the choice of two different shirts... yeah now he goes in the drawer and pulls out the one he wants to wear! If I try to help, he will just go choose a different one anyway. At least I still get to pick out the matching bottoms.

As far as food choices, we are getting better at that. He does get to choose his breakfast choice (most days). He loves to eat Quaker cereal bars (right now he has the choice of apple or mixed berries), cereal with "ilk"... cereal without "ilk" is a snack... not breakfast! (if you try to give him dry for breakfast he will keep saying milk over and over until you put milk in it), occasionally he'll want a bagel yogurt, or toast, but not often.

He can pick his own snack out since they are all in a cabinet that he can reach and get into. I found this to be a lot easier than playing the guessing game, and he can get them when he wants not when I think he should be hungry for a snack. (yes, I limit how much he has and often how close it is to meal time, but it is his body and his appetite... plus he's really good about it too).

Lunch and dinner I choose what he is having for the most part... sometimes I give him choices for lunch, but usually it is whatever I am having he has the same.

It is amazing how much he has changed since January! (feel free to blog surf in my archive to see other ways my little guy has gotten bigger!)

Thursday

Ok I have to admit something... I think I have nothing to say! I've been racking my brain for something profound to share... something new... something... anything. And, I can't come up with anything!

Sooo anyone have a question for me?

Fun in the sun

Where does your cup go?

As a teacher, I was very particular about things being left on the floor. Toys and things were fine when they were being used, or if you asked to leave them out for later. But, it drove me crazy when there were pencils, crayons, scissors, paper that kind of thing on the floor after the children were done with an activity. Now when they were in the midst of a creative project if things go dropped that was fine, but when you are done and cleaning up, pick them up off the floor!

One thing that I've started doing with Blake is getting him to pick up his cup and put it on the table when he is done drinking it. This is taking a while (ok I just started it with him over the weekend, but it feels like it has been forever!). Blake always has at least one water cup (usually two or three) in the living room (remember we live in Orlando.... you need to drink!) and often a milk or juice cup too. For a long time he would drink it and then just drop it wherever he was then go on to play. This led to many long hard searches for the milk cup... it was under the sink at least once, in the toy box, under chairs, in a drawer... you get the picture!

So, now that we are getting a bit older, and the new baby is on the way.... I've decided it is time for him to put the cup on a table when he is done. The first day was NOT fun... we got to play... if you aren't going to pick it up on your own, then I'll help you pick it up! He so hatesssss to have you hand-over-hand help him do ANYTHING!

Now we are getting a bit better... no we aren't to the point where he puts it on a table without reminders, but if reminded he does it on his own. And, if I'm not right next to him when he is drinking, I can walk him to the cup and he will do it when asked.

We are getting there! I figure a few more days or reminders and praise and he will be doing it on his own!

prayers for a friend

(if you have a hard time reading this... just click on it to make it larger)

Ok yes I know you don't know this friend of mine, and she doesn't blog so I can't link you to her, buttttt I had to post about her today. One year ago today (which was actually mother's day) her husband was killed in a car crash. Her son was just a little over 6 months at the time. (for those who know Baby Zone, we were on the same due date club that is how we met).

So take today to hug your little one a bit harder. Make sure you tell your family that you love them. Spend some quality time with your other half. And remember that each moment is a memory waiting to happen!

Anyone else want to have a meltdown right now?

wow that wasn't fun! Blake, Abby and I were having a great morning. Blake slept until 8:10, then when he got up he wanted to read a bit before getting dressed. We then had breakfast and went for our walk. After that we played on the computer (a big treat for him). Things are great... things are fine. Ok lets make ice cream. So I get everything ready and put him up on the counter to help me... he had a blast!

Then things went downhill from there!

Abby saw a cat in the backyard... ok now she is flipping out so I go let her outside. And Blake went and started playing. Super, ok timer is set for the ice cream to finish... Blake is playing and Abby's outside

Beep, beep, bark, bark, scream, beep, beep

ok who first? I look at Blake and he is trying to get Abby's treats off the counter... simple out of site out of mind... yeah not with Blake! I look at Abby she has wrapped her whole run around the tree... beep beep beep... I look at the ice cream... yeah it has to be dished up now and frozen.

Ok... I decide to ignore Blake (he is fine he just wants dog treats), I go unwrap Abby from the tree (in fear she will pop herself from her collar... that wouldn't be good) But, of course she won't come in.

I go and turn off the timer and start dishing the ice cream... here Blake up on the counter to help mommy... yeah that was fine until I was about 1/3 done and he wanted to climb over the counter.

Ok off you go! ice cream is dished... here do you want the bowl... nope He's back trying to open the drawer that I put the dog treats in. Oh guess what... Abby's tangled around the tree again!

grrrrr!

I finally dragged her in... tried to get him to stop crying... nope I don't want to calm down. fine I'm going to wash dishes!

I think it took him 15 min to totally calm down..... all over dog treats!


a few laughs for today

My dad sent me this as an e-mail today.... I thought I'd share!



If you need a good laugh, try reading through these children's science exam answers

Q: Name the four seasons.
A: Salt, pepper, mustard and vinegar.

Q: Explain one of the processes by which water can be made safe to drink.
A: Flirtation makes water safe to drink because it removes large pollutants like grit, sand, dead sheep and canoeists.

Q: How is dew formed?
A: The sun shines down on the leaves and makes them perspire.

Q: How can you delay milk turning sour? (brilliant, love this!)
A: Keep it in the cow.

Q: What causes the tides in the oceans?
A: The tides are a fight between the Earth and the Moon. All water tends to flow towards the moon, because there is no water on the moon, and nature hates a vacuum. I forget where the sun joins in this fight.

Q: What are steroids?
A: Things for keeping carpets still on the stairs.

Q: What happens to your body as you age?
A: When you get old, so do your bowels and you get intercontinental.

Q: What happens to a boy when he reaches puberty?
A: He says good-bye to his boyhood and looks forward to his adultery.

Q: Name a major disease associated with cigarettes.
A: Premature death.

Q: How are the main parts of the body categorized? ( e.g., abdomen)
A: The body is consisted into three parts -- the brainium, the borax and the abdominal cavity. The brainium contains the brain; t he borax
contains the heart and lungs, and the abdominal cavity contains the five bowels A, E, I, O, and U.

Q: What is the fibula?
A: A small lie.

Q: What does 'varicose' mean? (I do love this one...)
A: Nearby.

Q: Give the meaning of the term 'Caesarian Section.'
A: The Caesarian Section is a district in Rome

Q: What does the word 'benign' mean?'
A: Benign is what you will be after you be eight.






Kids Are Quick

TEACHER: Maria, go to the map and find North America
MARIA: Here it is.
TEACHER: Correct. Now class, who discovered America ?
CLASS: Maria.
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TEACHE R: John, why are you doing your math multiplication on the floor?
JOHN: You told me to do it without using tables.
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TEACHER: Glenn, how do you spell 'crocodile?'
GLENN: K-R-O-K-O-D-I-A-L'
TEACHER: No, that's wrong
GLENN: ! Maybe it is wrong, but you asked me how I spell it.
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TEACHER: Donald, what is the chemical formula for water?
DONALD: H I J K L M N O.
TEACHER: What are you talking about?
DONALD: Yesterday you said it's H to O.
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TEACHER: Winnie, name one important thing we have today that we didn't have ten years ago.
WINNIE: Me!
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TEACHER: Glen, why do you always get so dirty?
GLEN: Well, I'm a lot closer to the ground than you are.
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TEACHER: Millie, give me a sentence starting with 'I.'
MILLIE: I is..
TEACHER: No, Millie..... Always say, 'I am.'
MILLIE: &nbs p; All right... 'I am the ninth letter of the alphabet.
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TEACHER: George Washington not only chopped down his father's cherry tree, but also admitted it. Now, Louie, do you know why his father didn't punish him?
LOUIS: Because George still had the axe in his hand.
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TEACHER: Now, Simon, tell me frankly, do you say prayers before eating?
SIMON: No sir, I don't have to, my Mom is a good cook.


TEACHER: Clyde , your composition on 'My Dog' is exactly the same as your brother's. Did you copy his?
CLYDE : No, sir. It's the same dog.
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TEACHER: Harold, what do you call a person who keeps on talking when people are no longer interested?
HAROLD: A teacher.


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not quite himself

Blake had a tough weekend this weekend. I don't know if he isn't feeling well? If he is sensing the changes in the house? If he realizes that all his furniture has been moved? If he was just having a few "off" days? Or what!

I know he was having some tummy troubles, but I think we got that straightened out... only time will tell! Of course I'm not sure if it was caused by a lack of fluid? Something he ate/drank? A minor bug? Stress, ok feeling mommy/daddy stress?

That is one of the challenges of dealing with a not so verbal 18 month old (and now I can actually call him an 18 month old as he turned 18 months yesterday). I just wish he could tell him what hurts or what I can do to make him feel better!

Trust me for the most part he lets you know what he wants/ needs! He is getting very good at moving people to show them what he wants from another part of the house (granted visitors don't always understand why they are being pushed around... literally!).

I keep hoping that once the new baby is here he will up his verbal skills. I will tell you that I'm very impressed with his receptive language... for the most part he understand what you say to him and can (but doesn't always) follow directions.

Well he decided to sleep in today so maybe that will help him feel more himself. I hope to get him back on track and on schedule... and feeling more Blake!

awards given 5/12/2008









This award was given to me by Danielle at New Mommy Rant... Thanks Danielle! I'm going to pass it on to:

Marmarbug at My Life as "Momma"
Christine at Smiles & Trials
Erin at Erin's Words














This award was given to me by Laskigal at From the Cheap Seats... Thanks Laskigal!

I'm passing this one onto:
Pam at Random Thoughts
Danielle at New Mommy Rant

My Blogging Style

This was mentioned on Pam's blog at Random Thoughts so I checked it out....

Sound like me?




Your Blogging Type is Kind and Harmonious



You're an approachable blogger who tends to have many online friends.

People new to your blogging circle know they can count on you for support.

You tend to mediate fighting and drama. You set a cooperative tone.

You have a great eye for design - and your blog tends to be the best looking on the block!

random weekend thoughts

1. Wow another week down, how many more to go??

2. Pandora is great! One more way to access music

3. Noggin was created for Mommies!

4. Running around the couch and laughing with a toddler is a lot of exercise when you are very pregnant.

5. Hmmm I wonder if I should pack a bag just in case I don't make it to my delivery date??

6. Have I told you lately that I feel huge, tired and ready for this pregnancy to be OVER??

7. I love being a stay-at-home mommy and being able to watch the magic of the every day things with Blake... and look forward to having baby boy #2 here too.

8. I like having Site Meter on my site... it's fun to see how many people check out my blog on a daily basis... and where they are from!

9. I love the fact that Richard decided that since I didn't want a birthday gift he decided to get me a bunch of cards and hide them throughout the house.

10. I hope everyone had a great Mother's Day weekend!

Pudding is....

nummy nummy! This was a big treat for Blake. He does get sweets but not very often. I think he liked it...

schedule changes

Well my little guy is growing up! He finally has cut back to just one nap (with a little help). For a long time he was still looking for a short rest time around 9am (I think he would still go for that some days). It was a nice treat for me because I would put him in his room and he would rest/ play quietly / read and I got to take my shower. The challenge was that he would then only take a 1 hour nap in the early afternoon and then try to be up for the rest of the night. Yeah well that wasn't a good thing. You don't go from 2 naps totally 4-5 hours to less than 2 hours between your rest and nap time.

So the other day I decided to keep him up through his morning rest time (so long morning showers!) and put him down around 11:15 and then leave him there for at least 2 hrs if not more. Now if he had got totally upset I would have let him out of his room. Well the first day he stayed there for almost 2.5 hours and was soooo much better that night.

The next day... he slept for over 2 hours and I left him for another hour. Since then he has been napping for close to 3 hours a day.

He is waking a lot happier and isn't so tired when Richard gets home from work. He also is able to last until 7pm again without almost falling asleep in the living room. Which is nice because both Richard and Blake enjoy their time together at night.

The other plus is Blake will have had about a month of this schedule before the baby is born so I can then work around the schedule once the baby is on his own schedule. My goal is to have alone time with each boy and maybe, just maybe 30 min to myself??

question for you

So here's a blogging question for you! Has anyone else ever gotten an e-mail from a website asking you to blog about their site? I got one today for a scrapbook site that I have never even been to never mind frequent! I thought it was strange that they asked me to look at the site and then post about it on my blog. First off... I don't use your site. Second, (and I hate to say this) what do I get out of it?

I just found this very strange. And, I was wondering if this is something that happens frequently or if it was just an odd fluke type thing!

Thanks!!

Google Reader

Let me tell you this was the best thing I've discovered as far as a tool for reading blogs! I love the fact that I can read a quick preview of the posts and decide if I want to read the whole thing (some days there just isn't enough time to read and comment for every blog... sorry!). I love the fact that I can sort the blogs into folders and therefore pick and choose which ones I read first and which ones I leave for later.

As of today I have 25 blogs that I follow on a regular basis, if I had to click on each of these blogs every day to see if they have posted anything new I'd never get anything done and never get to reply to any of the posts.

So Thank You Google for creating this tool!

If you aren't using Google Reader, I suggest you check it out. If you are... what do you think about it?

Worry that you aren't in my 25 blogs and you follow mine? If you reply to my blog often there is a very good chance that you are in my Google reader!

my turn

Sharing is something that is worked on a lot in kindergarten. Most children have a firm understanding of the concept by that time, but it doesn't mean they necessarily like to do it. When I taught I had community supplies on all of the tables as well as many other things that encouraged them to share items in the classroom. I usually discouraged them from bringing their "at-home toys" to school so that wasn't an issue either.

I've started working on sharing with Blake and have since he began playing. We do your turn / my turn with the toys. He is pretty good about it, and there are a lot of times when he now will bring toys to me or others over to visit to let them have a turn. It's a little tougher when there are other children around as he has limited exposure to other children his age. But, he is starting to understand how that works too.

The challenge is when I have something and won't share it with him... yeah that doesn't fly very well. For example, Blake wants to use my camera. He loveessss to look at the pictures after I've taken them and has for a while, but now he wants to use the camera too. We tried giving him another camera (not a toy camera but a real one that no longer works) yeah that's not what he wants. So now it's hard because when I take out the camera I can get 1 or 2 pics and then he either wants to look at the pictures or take his own. Hmmm I think a camera for Blake will be in order for his birthday, if he and I can last that long!

Blake and his camera:
















The picture Blake took with my camera (with a bit of help):

I like to eat, eat, eat Apples and Bananas

Just Jamie's post yesterday Pyramid Schmyramid got me thinking about Blake.

As a teacher I used to encourage the children in my class to try new things. When we cooked (as seldom as that was... I would rather do it weekly but didn't... anyway)... I used to tell the children to at least take one bite, just try it! With Blake a lot of times I can say just take one bite and try it and and he will, but 9 times out of 10 the item then is spit out and is dog food!

I can tell with him it is more a texture thing than a taste. He will eat berry flavored cereal bars, yogurt and such, but don't try to give him a strawberry, blueberry or any berry for that matter. He loves to drink orange juice, but refuses to eat oranges. Blake eats Granny Smith apples (sometimes) and bananas... that's it for fruits

He lovesss to eat meat and cheese. He eats breads, crackers, and cookies, but not rice or pasta (other than mac & cheese). I try to sneak veggies in where I can... he LOVED veggies when they were baby food and even when he first started with finger foods, but now... no thank you I don't want to eat that corn, peas, beans etc...

I love fruit! I like to eat the veggies I like to eat. I grew up eating fruits and veggies all the time. Richard... well Richard eats fruits and some veggies (he is doing better now since he realized that when you steam veggies they have more texture and taste!). I want my kids to grow up liking to eat fruits and veggies. Soooo we keep offering them to him, and he keeps spitting them out (if you get them in his mouth... when he touches them he makes an awful face).

It will be a lot better once he's a bit older and I get him to help out in the kitchen. I have found in the past that when children have ownership over a meal they are more willing to try it themselves.

Meme

I was tagged for this meme by Danielle at New Mommy Rant

a. Link to the person who tagged you.
b. Post the rules on your blog.
c. Write six random things about yourself.
d. Tag six random people at the end of your post by linking to their blogs.
e. Let each person know they have been tagged by leaving a comment at their blog.
f. Let your tagger know when your entry is up.

Hmmm 6 random things about me

1. Music has always played a big roll in my life. I love to listen to music while doing most anything. I've sang in choirs/choruses since I was in the 3rd grade (not singing in one at the time). I like most kinds of music (except country and rap-crap!).

2. I love to read. I read to Blake all the time and have since the day he came home from the hospital. I read every night before going to bed. I like to read mystery and romance novels, but have a few other books that I like too. I do not re-read adult novels, once I've read it I'm done with it

3. I don't like celebrating my birthday. When I was a teenager I had a LOT of things go totally wrong on my birthday... I got into a car accident (hit head on while I was waiting to turn), diagnosed with mono, infection in my wisdom teeth (ok that was my 21st b-day), there are others too. It wasn't until my first b-day with Richard that I even acknowledged that I had a b-day

4. I have nightmares of going into labor and Richard can't get into the delivery room. See having a planned c-section is a good thing for me on so many levels

5. I have a thing with names. I've known way too many people who were (in my opinion) named wrong. Your name says a lot about you and names and personalities go together. That is a big part of the reason I struggle with coming up with a name for the new baby. We struggled with Blake too.

6. I am and always have been goal oriented. It's just that now my goals are simple like get Blake to nap for longer than 1 hour for the whole day... lol


I tag:
Laskigal at From the Cheap Seats
Kami at Kami's Khlopchyk
Heather at Always wear clean under roos
Just Jamie at Choosing my own...
Marmarbug at My life as "Momma"
Amber at Babywearing Buzz

updated pics of the boy's rooms

We moved the changing table into the new baby's room and pulled my old bureau out of Blake's closet to use in his room for a bit. I think the rooms are as done as they are going to be until the baby is born (oh wait I want to hang the baby's quilt on the wall... but that won't take long at all)

Sorry the pics are sort of dark... Blake was sleeping so I didn't use the flash and his light was off and shade was down.... and of course I didn't turn the flash back on for the baby's room!

Again, again and again

As a teacher, I realize the importance of repetition for learning. I know that children need to try things over and over to master skills. I also know that they love to hear stories multiple times.

But, as a mother of a toddler I find myself saying... can we please read another book! We just read that one 5 times in a row. Nope... again, again! Blake has a few books that we could read over and over and over for 30 or more minutes and he would be very happy. Yes, I know this is great for language development. Yes, I know it is great for pre-reading skills. Yes, I know reading is important and the love of reading even more important. Buttttt, can't a mommy get a break. I can read these books without looking at the book. I can read it forwards and backwards. I have even read them in my sleep!

But, I know being a good mommy/ teacher that I will continue to read these books until he decides that a different book is his new favorite. Then the pattern will start again!

Making digital scrapbook pages

I often get asked how I make my digital scrapbook pages (seen on Sundays). I began making them using Scrapbook Flair's free software. Once I got into it more a friend of mine gave me Photoshop Elements 5. Which is what I use now! Photoshop provides the ability to do a lot more (shapes, angles, shadows, etc...). But, if you are just looking to start trying digital scrapbooking I suggest checking out Scrapbook Flair. They have a lot of free downloads, and links to people's blogs where you can get other stuff for free or at a low price.

You can print these pages out and make them various sizes... every 3 months or so I make 5 new pages to put into my 4x6 frames at home and the one's Richard has at work. I also made the invitation to Blake's birthday party and other things like that too. Most of the stuff I make I keep on my hard drive and one of these days I'm going to d/l all of Blake's pics and scrapbook pages onto a CD to have a digital photo album for each year of his life.

If you'd like to look at more of my work (even see some of my early stuff, although I have deleted some off the site) you can check out my page on their site.

I'm sure there are other sites out there that have similar formats, but this is the one that was suggested to me and therefore it was the one I used!

Sunday Scrapbook page

here's one I just made....

Sunday Scrapbook page

I'm not too big!

We were setting up more stuff in the baby's room tonight. Blake was so excited while we were putting the bouncy chair together. He was having a blast playing with the aquarium bar before it was even on the chair... but then wooohooo!

random weekend thoughts

1. Spring is in full swing, ok actually we've already had spring and it's more summer here, but it's so nice to be able to get outside in the mornings and play with Blake... soon we will have summer showers everyday (YUCK!)

2. Finding a comfortable position at 35 weeks pregnant is not possible!

3. Trying to guess the mood of a toddler is impossible

4. Putting the bassinet in our bedroom made it even more real that this baby is coming soon

5. Not knowing the date of my c-section is frustrating, but do able

6. Ice cream before bed is the best cure for heart burn... or so I've found (I'll pay for it after the baby is here I know!)

7. Having friends, even those you've never meet in real life, surprise you is always a nice treat (a group of friends I met on-line are throwing me a cyber shower... can you ask for anything nicer?)

8. Random thought from Richard: planning birthday surprises for someone who is VERY pregnant is not fun... the only thing the person wants is to not be pregnant and you can't get them that!

When Blake's in a mood...

No one gets to be happy! Blake didn't have a good nap today, and despite my attempt to get an extra afternoon nap in he was not a happy camper. Or he wasn't for long stretches of time. He did a good job at the grocery store (I guess that is a blessing). But, getting ready to go was NOT fun! Oh the joys of a 2 year old.. oh wait I don't have a 2 year old yet... he isn't even technically 18 months (that doesn't happen until May 11th).

The worst part is Abby's allergies are bothering her so he gets on her nerves very easily. And, when Blake is in a mood Abby is a prime target. He isn't mean to her, but when she wants to be left alone you need to leave her alone. So Abby had a choice of going outside or going in my bedroom and Blake got to stay in "his part of the house".

You know he is not in a good mood when at 6:45 he was ready for bed (his normal bedtime is between 7 and 7:30).

I just hope tomorrow is a better day!!

Splish Splash I was playing in the bath

The other day Blake decided he wanted to play in our tub after his walk... he was in there fully clothed to begin with!

thank you all

over 1000 people have visited my blog since March 18th... wow I feel loved!

And the answer is.....

I don't have an answer (o:

I didn't get seen until a bit after 11:30 so my Dr said calling the hospital was silly since they'd all be at lunch. Soooooo I don't have a date. We talked about the dates that we did not want, and told him it would be best if we could put it off until after June 5th so we will see. He is going to have it set up before my next appt. which isn't until May 20th (my dr. is on vacation the week before)

soooooo sorry I still don't have an answer!

Quick post

I know many of you are waiting for today... when I find out when my little one is coming... well you'll have to wait longer! My dr's appointment is 10:50 (ET). Then Richard and I are going to lunch, and I may do a bit of shopping.

Soooo I probably won't get on again until Blake goes to bed tonight!

But, I did get my new poll up... look on the side bar underneath the Mother's Day ticker!

Have a great day (o: